Sunday, December 27, 2015

Amazing Sri Lanka

Mari and I finally make our words true and flew to Sri Lanka during Christmas. We had already got one of her friends, Aline, arrived there one day before and we joined her hotel in the midnight of 23rd. 

The first view when we got out of the hotel the next morning was pure light blue sky and deep blue sea, with some coconut trees. The dream scene came in such a sudden that I hadn't realized that we were already on the island. Walking along the road for some minutes, we passed by some stands selling green color drinks and orange skin coconuts, all looked exotic. Then we arrived at the train station, took the train where there was no door at all. People all stared at us, we were the only foreigners on the train, I also looked carefully into them, they all have well shaped figures, slimmer in general, super fit and long legs and proper outfits, better than I imagined for an underdeveloped country. One cripple came onto the train and began to beg, then played a drummer, gave some taps as if it would helps train to move with a better rhythm. 




It was barely 9 am, we arrived at the beach in Panadura , not a big one but clean like in the paradise. Taking a greedy breath, thinking of the pollution of 295 in Shanghai, great escape! No more freezing, no more misty, warm and shiny sands gently tickled the soles, we took a spot and lied down, leaving sunlight watering all the exposed part of the skin. I felt myself just fully melt in the air, it englobed me subtly without any stimulation, as if the skin has lost all its sensation and is perfectly integrated into it. 




We approached to the sea after a while, sea water jumped into my feet wave by wave as a game, the shallow bank allowed me to go deeper until sea covers my waist. A local family is playing a water ball. We joined them. The waves kept pushing us back to the bank, and the ball took all the chances to flee away. Either by waves or by wind. 

After a while, Ridma, my friend Aline's friend's sister came to pick us. Later on, she and her family proved to be one of the best people I have ever met. She took us to her and her mom's house to have Christmas lunch together. Mami already began to cook. Of course, the local food was the highlight. She prepared the Cudles, a kind of fried balls made of tuna and potatoes. There was also Bringjol, the dish looked quite similar to eggplants, but it was because the plant got fried, the texture was more solid with darker color.  We also got other curries, fish meat, bettrave and nachos on the table. Aline has travelled to a lot of countries before and was also in India last year, she was quickly adapted and ate with her hands. Sri Lanka, like in India, is one of few countries that use hand to eat meals. Freestyle. I was a bit reluctant to do so in the beginning, but my other little girl side of mind was saying: come on, you're getting too old and stubborn to try new things? You want to belong to those boring people who never want to change? 


Aline playing with the dog


Ridma's garden


Cudles still in the pot


Bringjol, a local fried veggie





It did required some skills to mix sauces and rice without leaking those harder grains of rice out of fingers. I didn't really enjoy sticky sauces crawling on my hand skin and nails, but it was a funny and tiny mindset chanllenge after all. 

Like many other Sri Lankan families, Ridma's family is Buddhist. They are not supposed to kill animals in a direct way. Therefore, their house is also shared by a kitchen wall of busy ants, a bunch of birds flying acrossing the rooms, a transparent house lizard, a sneaky squirrel in the backyard, apart from Aline's friend's dog.

We headed to Galle after lunch, a historic city 2 hours of car away from Panadura. It used to be a battle field among Dutch, British and Portugese. Dutch people built up the defense stone wall to prevent strangers to enter, and also brought the religious culture into the island. We saw a Dutch temple, and a street called church street. Among others, there were also Arabic church and Islamic church. I'm not really sure if it was an overlap, anyway, we spent the rest of the day lying down on the stone walls to see the sunset. The ship in the sea far away was still like a house. 


Dutch temple 


Watch tower






Ridma drove us to the hotel at the beach, we found a restaurant nearby. Although we  were really full from the generous lunch, we had proper dinner for Christmas Eve. Mari, Aline and Ridma ordered curry and Mami had seafood with rice. I had cuttle fish with salad and chips. Surprisingly,they didn't sell alcohol, the runner is buddist and during holidays like Christmas l, it is not allowed to sell alcohols. Oh well... Merry Christmas!






Wednesday, November 4, 2015

Sinus Bradycardia

I went to have a medical check this morning for this Sunday's marathon, didn't expect anything special. Surprisingly, doctor told me that I got sinus bradycardia. Comparing my electrocardiogram with the examples of real sinus bradycardia, I confirmed that mine is a typical case, with 49 beats/min.

Hope this will not screw up Marathon...

Tuesday, October 6, 2015

Hiking Zhang Jia Jie

Right, it's all about HIKING in Zhang Jia Jie! Nothing is better than breathing deeply in nature, away from city pollution and just integrate ourselves as part of the nature.

The plane took off in Shanghai on Thursday night and landed 2 hours later, at Zhang Jia Jie International Airport, there goes the most ripped off airport ever: I'd rather believe it's a temporary bus station with plastic kind roof as if a typhoon can easily blow it off; the luggage convey line is around 10-15m, next to the stinky toilet, preventing me from going even though my tolerance to toilets are usually very high. The airport hall is no bigger than a football pitch, the check out process, therefore, took us for no more than 20min. The funny thing about the airports of Hunan province is that they are all named after flowers, so beside Zhang Jia Jie Lotus Airport, there are also Chang Sha Yellow Flower Airport (in the province capital) and Chang De Peach Blossom Airpot, even though ZJJ airport is apparently not in the same level as the one in Changsha in terms of facilities.

My boyfriend's colleague recommended us to this Base Youth Hostel, very close to the airport and Tianmen mountain, where we were about to go the next day. It proved to be very nice and quiet, economical and friendly. Arrived at around midnight, the cab was the only option, we managed to negotiated the price from 250 RMB to 30 RMB, "very warm" welcome from the local drivers.



  • Impression on the airport: ★★☆☆☆



Day 1 - Tianmen Mountain

It was very easy from our hostel to Tianmen Mountain ticket office, cab for 5 RMB, almost 1/3 of the price of Shanghai. There are two ways for the mountain trip:
A - climb by cables and down by bus
B - up by bus and down by cables

B was definitely our wise choice, where the bus led us to a great view all the way up. The slope was quite sharp that we couldn't stay stable for a moment, knowing that our altitude rocket-rose from 200m to 1300m within 15min, with constant 180 degree turns in direction. At some point, we could even hear other people screaming in the shuttle, and one of those guys looked out and shout out in a very girly way: "这么高啊!(so high)" and that sentence became the new byword of my bf through out the trip. When we reached the 1300m of altitude, there was a huge amount of sharp stairs to climb up, yeah we needed climbing than just walking - the slope was sharper than 45 degrees.



Another reason the B line was a better choice was that we were climbing up to reach the huge gate but not stepping down, which was way much more scary!


After 20min's climbing, sweating work, we finally got our rewarded gate hole, which is more than 100m high itself, with the heavy mist, the gate became more mysterious. As it's the most popular site of the mountain, we had to quickly move on and went up by 12 escalator carriages that were newly built this year.



We got up quite late, by the time we arrived at the escalators, it was already 11 am, our way up was extremely empty, on the contrary to the opposite direction. We arrived at the top of the mountain, it was a huge garden with even more fog. We could bearly see people 10 meters away, it became quite freezing with out T-shirt and shorts, we had to speed up our walk to warm ourselves, but the path was quite narrow and there were always people coming from the opposite direction, making the way difficult to move on.


It suddenly began to rain, the hard heavy drops flashed through big trees and froze on the skin, it was chill to hell, we had to stop by a canteen, which prevented us from getting a cold. We tried to get out of the canteen several times, but eventually ran back to canteen to be covered in warmth. By the time we were determined enough to throw ourselves outside, the only thing we wanted to do was to get out of this freezing mist asap, urgent mission. So all the temples, stones and statues became ignorable, we couldn't really appreciate them properly with the heavy mist after all. We didn't feel a hint of fear either on the glass path, all what we saw was just cloud.




We quickly went back to the hotel and the first day was not yet really hiking, oh well, eye hiking.

  • Impression on Tianmen Mountain: ★★★☆☆ (would have given 4-4.5 if we had better weather)
  • Tianmen Mountain ticket: around 260 RMB/person for 1 day availability


I have to break down the travel journal into 2 parts as it's been quite long...hopefully tomorrow I'll be able to finish the other part.



Tuesday, September 22, 2015

Full Marathon Registered

What a great day! We are all successfully registered for Marathon. Here begins the training!

Sunday, August 23, 2015

Stressful Visit in Fengjing

Yeah, finally a meet with my parents. What a stressful day and how embarrassing it was when my dad asked me to urge my own relationship. Good that everything passed fairely well and we went to run again for 10k, just before the rain of cats and dogs.

Sunday, August 16, 2015

Laser Tag & New Friends

Thanks to Philipo Izaggi, we've got some new friends! Yesterday was Cristian's birthday and he turned to 28, although it was the first time to meet him. Haha! Laser Tag was so fun and we surprisingly got 3 games all in the win team, after changing all the time. Lucky rabbits.


Friday, August 14, 2015

No OT

I don't know the consequences of no OT, but never really did a lot during the past year. Sometimes I just felt that OT didn't bring out a lot of work. Or maybe with the pressure of no OT, efficiency will be improved. Yup, so no OT for August! Let's see how it evolves.

Thursday, August 13, 2015

Eat Honey Like this!

Yes, it's home of bees! Well, part of them, I guess they are building more hexagones while this home is taken away for selling.  Actually it doesn't taste that bad, the only different feeling from tasting normal honey is I act more like a greedy bear, swallowing the whole thing, including the beewax. After all, wax is not that a pleasant texture on the palate, it made me doubt if it was eatable at some point. But Google nodded!


Wednesday, August 12, 2015

Profit is not profit

I'm currently reading <Smarter Investing - Simpler Decisions for Better results>, which was recommended by a senior in business school. Actually I have already "read" it the same time last year, where I got a free e-book online with a very version of poor translation. It ended of course by not finishing the book, at some point I wished I never had wasted time looking for this poor quality. When I finally found the real book in paper in a shop again, passing through cashier was not a hesitation.




Now I'm in the 4th chapter out of 15, where I have to take some notes, or the reading-value would fade with years pass on, experience says.

Expected surprise - truth are always hidden in simplicity. I was so astonished by myself not realising earlier how an annual profit of positive figures could be a loss, of course,  when market is growing faster than your profit is! So it would not be harder anymore either to understand the one who loses the least wins. So, on the contrary of the concept of self-developing or personality building, investing is holy soaked in comparison, your loss is others' profit and vice versa. That comes also quite often to me to stop reading this book, in which I find many investing philosophies have nothing to do, or sometimes even conflictual to those wisdom sayings of good personal qualities building and those of hedonism. Investing, more generally speaking, including time, energy, spiritual resources, human capital or money... are all limited! If you want to invest more in self-developing, it will to conflictual to money-investing. After all, it comes back to the question of: what's your life goal? Knowing that everyone's resources are really poor compared to what we need ourselves to be...

To be, or not to be!


Sunday, May 10, 2015

Verhuizen naar People’s Square

Ik heb uiteindelijk verhuisd! Mijn nieuwe appartment is alleen maar 1 minuut wandelen weg de metro en het is bij People’s Square, het benoemed centraal van het stad. Ik ben heel blij! Het appartment is in een oud gebouw maar heel schoon. Maar heel veel werken voor het verhuizen. Ik moest een matras kopen, ik heb ook de gordijn verhanderd en ik moest nog veel schoon werk daan!

Monday, March 16, 2015

Climbing!

Nothing can be more fun than sports. Sports always bring me the greatest joy, no matter it was skiing with Linzhi, or climbing with our group today.


We found this place quite occidentally, as we were supposed to go to the place at people square, but they didnt have any places left unluckily, so we had to move to Hongkou Stadium, which is quite far from where I live. But they are much more spacious and with more coaches who can actually help us during the climbing. Although the climbing with rope place is outside and a bit too chilly with only around 10 degrees, Maud and Jan were the pioneers to begin with climbing on the 5 meters wall and then we all begin to give it a try, we soon got exhausted with 2 or 3 tries, but the feeling of roping down is really exciting and cool!







Monday, February 9, 2015

这里并不是一让我泄怒的虚拟角落,而是一张少有的任我倾诉的白纸,并不平滑,波折的情绪将它皱褶,人称混乱的思想只会在这里散落一派胡言,尽管我并不苟同,但只是我的语言从来没有掌握到思维敏捷的节奏,在人看来笨拙到有些可笑,所以只能用最慢的文字去揣摩自己的表达。有时会想,只有一瞬间说出的话才是自己所想,经过思考的语句只是虚伪的化装,但是可惜我天生禀缺口才的天赋,一出口也都只是吝啬的只言片语,好不容易出了声,也好似冗长的又平淡的cliche,耐心的听我两句,不耐烦的便不屑与我交流。而我又似懦弱的软心肠,从不与人抗争,但其实心里并不服,只是懒得为自己战斗。

给自己的借口是习惯性的“用知识武装自己”,但26年的经验看来似乎并没有为自己赢得任何战利品,大概能清醒认识到自己的能力也只有自己。反省中,似乎看到一直回避战斗的态度只会将自己捆绑,缩小自己的空间。而且,甚至自己竟毫不羞耻地自称为“懦夫”,挡箭牌只是自己是个女孩,连“夫”都称不上;但同时,却耻笑许多拜金主义中“活得像个英雄不如金钱更实际”的态度。不知道这两者是否有可比性,至少足以警醒自己根本不比拜金主义崇高,而且中国人的谦虚往往可怕到谦卑的程度……可怕,可怕!

捆绑着的,都是思想封上的枷锁。钥匙,在我自己手上,勇敢解开它,至少可以让生命更有意义一些吧,虽然我知道自己只是一个不能再平凡的女孩,但是在平安年代,也是需要战士的勇气,去战斗,变成更好的自己。